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OXEN FACTS:
Second in order, Chinese name -- "NIU," sign of industry
CHARACTERISTICS Obstinate, Pouty,
Truthful, Motivated, Friendly, Apathetic, Genuine, Quick-tempered
Those born under the influence of the Ox are fortunate
to be stable and persevering. The typical Ox is a tolerant person
with strong character. Not many people could equal the resolution
and fearlessness the Ox exhibits when deciding to accomplish a task
or an objective. As we used this great creature long ago to plow the
soil day after day, so do Ox people labor through their daily
responsibilities either at work or at home without complaint or
gripe. Oxen know they will succeed through hard work and sustained
effort and find no truth or benefit in concocting get-rich-quick
schemes.
THE SIGN OF THE OX Pragmatic and
down-to-earth, Ox people are motivated to work hard and have no
respect for lazy or careless people. Although they can be easily
trusted and find it easy to put trust in others, they are not
dependent on friends and family and would rather find an answer or a
solution themselves than to ask these people for help or guidance.
However, others can, without a doubt rely on Oxen, who are always
honest and meticulous about their responsibilities. While they do
not feel the need for many distant or acquaintance-oriented
friendships, they value the strong bonds they share with their
partners and families, and make close friends that last a lifetime.
Though they are quite open-minded, once Ox people have
made a decision about something, they rarely change it. This is a
defining characteristic that can be seen as obstinacy, but it is
actually the way an Ox learns to be strong, brave and
straightforward. It is the way the Ox learned to take on tasks and
responsibilities and how he learns to be reliable for others. Oxen
are more comfortable with the well-known as opposed to the
unfamiliar. Yet, beneath their unpretentious, tranquil exterior lies
a heart of gold and a motivation to prosper.
Health & Home Life
OX HEALTH People born under the
sign of the Ox usually have strong codes and work ethics. This can
lead to a tendency to be a workaholic, and they should make an
effort to relax more. Many Oxen work in relatively stationary
occupations, and would benefit from squeezing a little exercise into
their routines. They are prone to bone and joint problems -
especially the knees - and must pay special attention to these
areas. However, Ox people are usually strong and robust, and,
according to ancient wisdom, should be blessed with long lives.
OX AT HOME The Ox's home is his
castle, a place where he finds relaxation and peace from the
everyday hustle and bustle of his career or responsibilities. This
is where he spends time with his friends and loved ones. The Ox
person doesn't put a lot of effort into making his house stylish,
for he would much rather be comfortable while reading the newspaper
or watching television. He doesn't spend much time indoors anyway—he
wants to be outside, smelling the air, planting gardens and trees,
which will usually be evidenced by the botanical literature you will
find on his bookshelf or on his coffee table. Ox people prefer to
live in the country. The Ox generally prefers to decorate his home
with nature's colors, i.e. golds, greens and oranges. However, since
the Ox is associated with January, winter colors might be more
appealing.
CAREER AND FINANCE
THE OX ON THE JOB Able, ethical
and aware, colleagues of the Ox will marvel at their methodical
approach and will depend on their eyes for detail. Oxen are not
phased by routines, probably because they are so well-organized.
They are better-suited for specialized positions and prefer to work
in large companies. They do, however, work best when they work alone
since they can be unhappy when participating in a large group.
MONEY AND THE OX Oxen believe in
security, and thus don't usually take wild risks or financial
gambles. They are meticulous about spending money and work hard to
ensure they will be able to retire comfortably.
OX CAREERS Those born in the Year
of the Ox share the same kinds of goals and objectives in life. The
occupations best suited for the Ox are listed below:
OXEN MAKE EXCELLENT: Painters,
Interior designers, Carpenters, Mechanics, Horticulturists,
Engineers, Draftsmen, Architects, Army Officers, Managers, Quarry
Workers, Academics, Archeologists, Osteopaths, Physioherapists,
Bankers, Investment brokers, Real estate agents
Pleasures
LIKES AND DISLIKES The Ox is a
lover of stability, a great traditionalist and a homemaker. Rarely
would you expect an Ox person to be an extrovert pleasure-seeker.
They are happiest in the peace of their own home territory.
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Likes |
Dislikes
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* saving money * home-cooked food * the familiar
* to be appreciated * sensible clothes *
traditional festivals * hand-made crafts * sober or
earthy color schemes * to plan ahead |
* stressful occupations or pursuits * fads and fashions
* change, especially if not voluntary * novelties and
gimmicks * being taken for granted * modern art *
heart-to-heart-chats * garish colors * foolish or
frivolous behaviour * washing dirty linen in public
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Oxen Preferences: Color
Preference: Violet Gems and Stones:
Jade, Emerald, Moss-Agate, Lapis-Lazuli
Suitable Gifts: Kitchen accessories, gardening
and planting books, cookbooks, bonsai trees Hobbies and
Pastimes: Body-Building, Baking, Gardening, Listening to
music, Sewing
Friends, Parents & Children
FRIENDS Oxen are not the most
sociable people and tend not to mix easily in social gatherings.
Instead, they would rather be at home, enjoying their privacy and
anonymity. Unlike the Rat, the Monkey, or the Rooster, the Oxen tend
not to have a little black book, preferring a few very loyal friends
to a large network of acquaintances. Oxen do know how to shine at
social occasions, but more often than not they dislike small talk.
These are wary people, unlikely to ignite friendships on the spur of
the moment. They like to take their time and get to know people
before disclosing themselves fully. A happy, solid relationship with
their partner and children is the most satisfying goal they could
accomplish.
Most Compatible Friends: Snakes & Roosters
OX PARENTS AND CHILDREN Oxen make
very protective parents. People born under this sign will
unselfishly work their fingers to the bone to provide a thriving,
happy and secure home where their children feel safe. In return,
however, the Ox mother and father demand that their youngsters be
courteous, respectful and polite. In comparison to other parents,
Oxen can seem a bit authoritarian but they are conventional and
believe in instilling within their children a belief system. A good
education is especially important and by utilizing their educational
opportunities, Oxen children can make their lives and relationships
with their parents a lot easier. Oxen parents expect their children
to listen, behave and be attentive while they are at school. Showing
rebellion is the fastest way to be punished in the Oxen household.
Oxen, especially female Oxen, tend to start their
families early on and completely immerse themselves in caring for
and parenting their children. This can lead to dependent children
and can pose a problem for parents who are trying to teach their
children to become self-reliant.
LOVE
THE OX LOVER Oxen dislike
chit-chat. They don't have fun at parties and as aforementioned,
don't have a ton of friends. They are not very sociable and would
rather be spending their time at home with their families. When the
Ox is in love, he does not confirm his feelings verbally, preferring
to show you how he feels rather than tell you. An Ox will take a
long time to decide if you are the right match for him because Oxen
hate change, and want to find someone who is ready to embark upon a
stable marriage. Oxen never rush into anything and are not
flirtatious people. Once they have committed to you they will
usually be faithful and expect reciprocation of their honorable
actions.
MARRIAGE Unfortunately, many Ox
marriages do fall apart after a couple of years, possibly because
the Ox is too dominant or inflexible. Perhaps it's because, Oxen
tend to place blame on everyone but themselves. But if an Ox
fortunate, and has chosen wisely, the couple can build and maintain
a close-knit family to which the Ox will completely devote himself.
THE OX LOVE PARTNER Oxen are
strong, silent, reliable people who sometimes take for granted that
their relationship is a partnership and that they make not always be
the dominant figure. Other Animals may find them quite stubborn and
overbearing. Chinese horoscopes are very specific about which
partnerships have the potential to be successful in love and in
business. Yet, though destiny can point us in the right direction,
we must still make all efforts to maintain loving relationships.
Following is a brief description of how an Ox will affect a
relationship with other Animal signs.
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